Benjamin Luke Berthet
1984-2017
Sadly passed away 20th August 2017
Aged 33 years
Late of Glossodia
Beloved soul mate of Carley. Loving father of Jade, Jack and Lara.
Loving son of Jennie and Jeremy. Much loved brother of Ryan, grandson, nephew, cousin and friend.
Will Be Very Sadly Missed.
Funeral service details
Date: Wednesday, 30th August, 2017
Commencing: 1:00pm
Location:
Garden Chapel of Castlebrook Crematorium, Windsor Road, Rouse Hill.
We live across the road me and jade play a lot together and the best memory is when jack got out and he would chace after him so I think that he should be loved all he needs so farewell Ben,
Brianna.shaw.cassidy.I'll see ya when I'm lookin at ya old mate
Wayne MaddenBen, I remember your warm heart and big smile. .Watching you grow from a sweet boy into an amazing young man and a loving dad has been a privilege.
Sharon Payne.I remember the first time you introduced me to your beautiful Carley. The pride and love in your eyes said it all.
You will be missed by all of us who knew you.
Sharon Payne & David Bould
Dearest Carley, Jade, Jack and Lara, we didn't know Ben all that well but what we did know was a beautiful soul mate and Daddy to you all, who is now your Guardian Angel forever. Our love and thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. Never forget how loved you are.
Amanda & Ben Murphyxoxoxo
Honoured to witness you enter this world, and blessed with so many fond and happy memories as you grew up such a close friend alongside my own children. Best of mates with Paddo, and with only six months between you, there were many shared adventures from preschool to high school days, with much joy and mischief along the way. So thoughtful, generous and kind of nature, with a ready smile and positive outlook, you brought love and light to the hearts of many. Some of my favourite memories....baby Ben's big brown eyes beneath a blonde fringe on your beautiful mother's hip....conversations around the campfire with John Williamson on repeat....watching you interact as a loving and caring partner and father. The dust from your departure is still settling Ben, but a lifetime of beautiful memories remain.
Christine FooteMy earliest memory of Ben was when Jen and Jeremy came to my house for a BBQ in 1986. Ben was just 2 years old and was very inquisitive; he spotted a little rocking chair made of pegs that my father had made in 1981. Ben went to sit on it! And being 2 years old he had no idea that it wouldn’t hold his weight. Bottom and chair never connected. I still have that little rocking chair made of pegs and I always remember that day in 1986 with a smile on my face.
Jo SandersOur families spent a lot of time together after that first BBQ and I got to witness Ben growing into a beautiful young teenager. Jen and Jeremy moved to Coonabarabran so I missed the years of Ben growing into a man.
Years later I called into the local at Wilberforce and I heard this voice call my name. It was Ben and he was with Carley who I already knew as a young girl from primary school. What a gorgeous couple they made.
These two memories are by no means the only ones, but are the ones that first spring to mind.
A wonderful young man taken too early...always had a smile on his face...our family will miss you greatly...from TIM, Julian, Billy and Jay BERTHET
TIM BERTHETTENDERLY
Nicolle & David WykesMay time heal your sorrow.
GENTLY
May family & friends ease your pain.
SOFTLY
May peace replace heartache.
And may Warmest Memories Remain. Xxxx
To Jen, Jeremy, Carley, Jade, Jack and Lara, Ryan and Liz
Jen Pete Dave Tim StennettOur families first met as neighbours on our Binnaway properties. Our boys Dave and Tim had common interests with Ben, motorbikes being one of them and spent time riding together. Dave Tim and Ben had left school and their lives had taken them in different directions. Pete was working in Sydney and coming home on weekends and Ben had returned home for a while. Ben would come to our place through the week and mow the house paddock to save Pete some work on the weekends. One of these times, unbeknownst to us Pete had been working on the mower and had drained the oil and not had time to replace it. Ben came over and started the mowing as he usually did. All of a sudden it went very quiet....I looked outside to find Ben sheepishly sitting on the mower with a very upset and worried look on his face. That was when he realised there was no oil in the mower. We have had a few good laughs when we think about Ben's look of horror. Life is too short to be upset about these things I thought and told him not to worry about it. Ben returned on the weekend to try help Pete fix it. We never did fix it but gave it to Jen and Jeremy when we moved to Sydney.
Some people give the gift of peacefulness to every life they touch. They are always a "what you see is what you get" type of person. They are reliable, dependably good, predictably understanding, loved and treasured. You Ben were definitely one of those people and will be greatly missed.
Love always Jen & Pete Dave & Tim Stennett Xxx
It was a real honour to have met you and Carley a few years ago, dear Ben. You guys came up to a dowsing (divining) workshop that was organised at Jen's clinic one weekend. It was so good to have finally met you guys. I remember Wynelle, the 86 tear old (at the time) eccentric teacher, took a liking to Ben's friendly and grounded way. Wynelle picked Ben out of the 20 or more students, and had a lengthy discussion with Ben, regarding all sorts of weird and wonderful practices that she wanted to share. Ben was so focused and intent on listening to what Wynelle was saying. Wynelle was loving it. After lunch i went outside for a bit of fresh air, and noticed Ben, and Alec F. (a biodynamic farmer from Narrabri) in a deeply engrossing conversation. Alec and Ben were talking about farming. Ben was so impressed, enthused, and excited to hear about Alec growing his broad acre crops, with no toxic poisons/ chemicals, no artificial fertilisers, and pretty much farming by using 'energy'. This is a concept that had taken me years and years to grasp. Ben just took it all in, and was so curious- asking some really poignant questions, to try and understand what was going on with this 'energetic farming'. I could tell that Alec was loving the chat. I was amazed at the level and depth of questions that Ben was asking. It didn't take me long to remember that Ben was Jen and Jeremy's son- so of course Ben would have an intellect, and intuition, that would enable Ben to hold engaging conversations with all sorts of interesting people. May you find peace where you are dear Ben.
Brett Sanders33 years of memories, a favourite is hard to choose. I remember you as this almost white haired boy with olive skin, loving being outdoors, riding motor bikes, exploring and always being so inquisitive. Your questions always had so much depth, just like your Jade. Watching you grow into the family man you were was such a blessing. Finding your soul mate in Carley and being the amazing, actively engaged father you were was definitely your calling in this lifetime!
Lisa CharnleyI remember you always smiling and speaking with positivity regardless of the situation.... a trait you no doubt inherited from you unique Mum. Being able to speak with you about any topic, at any age, was a blessing in itself. A funny memory pops into my mind, of you coming to a gig of Matt's at Blacktown down in this basement type restaurant set up and us having Abbey there as an underager. She got all self conscious about being coaxed into dancing but you and I danced the night away.
May you always be smiling in flight Ben as you protect and guide your beautiful family in their lifetime. We love you.
Lisa, Matt, Abbey and Tulley xxxx
Jen & Jerum
Bernadette BrownBoy what can anyone say when you loose someone,one of your babies. All I can say is he will be walking with you every day to help guide your paths to your journey ahead.
To Bens family ;
I knew him many years ago he was the most beautiful human he was a special person in our life as it was before I had children he made me see things that no one else could.
Just hold in your heart how special and how lucky who ever came into his life that we are so lucky to have known him and see how beautiful he was.❤
Can not think of just one memory but many from our years at school together Ben always had a smile and something to make you laugh he will be sadly missed my thoughts are with his family
Tammy livingstoneMy favourite memory of Ben was just his wonderful smile and Ben was always. interested in how you were . He had that smile permanently on his face .. He had a happiness about him and when I think of Ben I smile .
Sandra MaddenI didn't know Ben personally but I know his amazing mother jen and was blessed to see her grand babies proudly displayed on her wall during my visits with her and watch her beautiful face light up talking about her boys and the children, so much love. Thinking of you all
Carol mayburysending much love
Love is a virtue ... so hard to define.It arrives at ones birth ... and continues to climb. You grow together as one ... the bond holds as inner strength appears .... and remains forever ...alongside the mist of your tears. X My heartfelt condolences to you Beautiful Berthets.Ride free Benny x
Robert SleeI sit and think of my favourite memory made with Ben and it is impossible to just pick one. Although much time has passed since I last seen him I still remember the brightness and happiness he filled our lives with every time he was near. The thing I will always remember most of all is that cheeky grin of his, from ear to ear and full of life. There was a group of us that were all good mates and Ben was a huge part of it, everything we did we did together from road trips and parties to just sitting around talking about random nothing's. My heart has broken for his Mother Jennie and Father Jeremy, Brother Ryan, His Partner Carley and most of all his precious precious Children Jade, Jack and Lara.
Joy WilliamsFirst meeting Ben at school, his happy go lucky, cheerful out look on life made for a great friendship. Many more friendships were made for me in Ben's presence because he always had a way of attracting like minded people. A fun person to be around Ben's character lived for adventure and a sense of living life to the fullest. Other sides of Ben like his calm understanding nature and willingness to truly listen showed how genuine his love was to the people around him. No matter how long the time was between visits, something about Ben never changed and that something is what everyone will always remember about Ben. You'll be missed mate.
Bernhard RickertBernhard Rickert
I grew up with Ben from preschool, primary school, soccer and high school. Almost 30years and I can say in all of those years the thing that stands out is his extremely contagious smile and his excitement when he saw a friend. Although I hadn't seen Ben in a few years I know that he would still think of me as a good mate. You will be missed Ben.
Greg TaggartCarley my thoughts are with you and your beautiful kids at this hard time and into the future. If your having a bad day just think of his beautiful smile. XXX
Taggart
Dear Jen,& Jeremy,
Glynne StoneWords cannot describe how I felt last night when Shannon came home & told me of Ben's passing,
shock, horror & disbelief are a few, I can only imagine what you are all going through, I am trying to send you so much luv
in this message, I just wish I could hug you all to try to make it all better.
Ben you always had that beautiful smile on your face, even when you came a cropper off your bike and ended up getting taken to the hospital. You where always the gentleman, polite & cheerful, I haven't seen you since you found love & made a family, but I do know your parents are very proud of the man you had become.
Sending so much luv & hugs to you all
You were one of the good guys Ben. Always had a smile on your face and a special sparkle in your eye when your beautiful Carley was around. . A real gentleman.
Deaun GawneYour family always came first. I remember Chris (Gus) telling me about talking with you about coming over to perth to work in the mines with him and you saying that it wasn't for you cause being with your family was more important then chasing the money. Chris thought you were crazy but I'm sure now he would be wishing he had done the same. I'm sure you two boys are at the bar enjoying a few together up there.
I promise I will try my best to be there for Carley and help her through the roller coaster of loosing you. There is so many amazing people around your family who will support and care for Carley and your 3 beautiful kids. I know you will be right beside them through life too giving them strength and protecting them.
Still can't believe another great guy has left this earth to early.
Forever in our hearts.
❤️ Dee and kids Xxxx
Dear Carley, Jade, Jack and Lara,
Barbara Wendt.Always know that your dad Ben will be so proud of what and who you all become. You will always be his treasured angles. Daddy will watch over you always.
David and Barb Franks.
Jenny and Jeremy, it was with great shock, disbelief and sadness that we heard the news about Ben. At a time like this there are no words that can convey our feelings or the challenges you, your family and Carley are coming to terms with.
Marg, Rob and Geraghty familyAll we can say is remember the good times and happy memories that you each shared. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. You are right your grandchildren are very special and your family strength is important for a positive future and fond memories for them.
Ben was happy to share his can of "Start-Ya-Bastard" out the front when we couldn't start our bike one day. Such a character.
Adam, Natalie & Koby ColesCarley our thoughts are with you and your little ones and we send all our love to your family. xoxo
So many memories ben and all good. My favorite memory would be seeing you and Carley start your phenomenal relationship. You 2 truely were soulmates always smiling always laughing. Watch over your beautiful family ben whilst you spread your angel wings. So much love and strength to your family at this devastating time xxx
Stevie JacksonBen, we went to school together and you were always so nice to me, even when many others weren't and you were a good friend. We played soccer and you would show me the things you could play on your guitar. We grew apart as we got older but you always were lovely. You were a kind and happy guy, I'm so sad to hear you are no longer on this world.
Kim Spicer (Hayes)Will miss your smile even though I knew you for such a short time you always had a nice thing to say always RIP
Sharon WatkinsonShazza
I'll never forget Carley's face introducing you all to us... Yous were truley soulmates .. There was never a time that You werent always full of smiles and laughs, no matter what anyone was going through you always had some beautiful Words to help them through.. You will never be forgotten your memories will live inside your family friends and kids. Rip mate Xx truley one of a kind . anyone who had the chance to be a part of your life will be forever thankful and blessed to have had such a great bloke in theirs xx
Jaz walzakJeremy, Jen and family. We were shocked and saddened to learn of Bens passing. You are all in our thoughts at this difficult time. Our own sons remember Ben well from school days and also send their condolences to you all.
Mal UnicombFamily weekends away to Mudge area on family Property riding motor bikes and family gatherings with his cousins Julian and billy and uncle tim and aunty rochelle
Rochelle FloydBen where do I start about truly such a great guy, well Benny we have known each other since we were kids growing up in the same town going to the same school and over the years a friendship was formed. You were a good friend to me always and all round such a good person you were always so selfless and humble in your way of life and to me those qualities are something that defined you of the great guy you were. You loved your family always putting them first you were nothing but an amazing father to your 3 beautiful kids, i remember always talking about them with you as they grew older when I'd come over, ah.. you were so proud!
David grahamI want you to know your legacy lives on through every single one of your family and friends you touched many of us over the years and those memories will always be held close to our hearts. May I wish that you rest in piece knowing that your family will always have the friends and support they need through these hard times and in their future lives.
Love you mate always in my heart and mind.
Dave Graham.
When we were growing up, Ben was like a brother to me. Together we learned how to approach the world, and take risks and have fun.. and all the things you do as kids.
Pete BerthetHe taught me to ride a motorbike, and I was always crap at it but he was never frustrated or impatient, he just kept trying to show me how.
Every time we got together we were fast friends, and would pick up where we left off.. and there are very few people in this world who I can say I am immediately comfortable with, but Ben was one of them. He will be missed.
Never once did I see Ben without a smile on his face and love pouring from his eyes. He cherished his children and adored his beautiful Carly.
Caty GarrickAlways in our hearts Burnout x
That cheeky smile. From the time i met Ben as a teenager , that smile never changed. It let me know all those years ago that this was an, energetic and cheeky one. A boy that would live as many moments possible full of smiles and laughter and take those around him along for a giggle.
Shannon Stone"Lil Ben" (which we called you because you were the short ben and like my little bro). Our friendship started with you riding your bike to my house over the hill everyday after school, you were there the day I found out I was pregnant with my Gracey and you were there to help with her every chance you could, you saved me from depression when my eldest son was born and I'll never forget your smile the day you found out you shared a middle name. You were always a random phone call or a tap at the door out of the blue. With your cheeky grin and contagious laugh. And oh we had some laughs. You were my rock when I left Coona all home sick and ready to come back you were the voice on the other side of Sydney telling me to pull it together and soldier on!
Sara Murdoch (Gordon)The day you sat in Coolah for 3 hrs waiting for me to get home just to meet my Shane and to share the exciting news that you were proposing to Carly is a memory I'll both cherish and regret. I should of held you longer and got home quicker. Our random facebook messages just to say we were alive is what I will now miss the most. Our friendship I always considered a gift, and a special friendship it definitely was. Everyone needs a Lil Ben in their lives and I'm so glad you were mine. I will miss you and pray for your babies everyday but they have a part of you so they definitely won't need it. Loves you shorty! Xxx
Lots of memories to cherish, also lots of partyn and fun had over past years..
Meegan WilliamsWe became friends when we were young kids living in Burdekin rd Wilberforce many memories hanging out and riding our motorbikes over the road being dare devils (still remeber your xr100) and us trying to do supermans over a jump ended in lots of stacks!!
Beautiful family and lifestyle you lived.. We will all take care of them for you!
That cheeky grin and always laughing!! No one will ever forget you Benxx
Love Megs xox
Sending love to you all ❤
Amy BrownOne of our memories is leaving Ben to babysit our kids. Ben had our kids n Ryan running around chasing rabbits with a cricket bat they didn't get any but it tired them all out we arrived home to happy laughing children . We love you Ben
Mcdonald familyThe day he entered my world and taught me true love. xo
Jen Berthet